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CBT for Menopause Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and menopausal symptoms

Does cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for hot flashes and other menopause symptoms really work?


Here is what cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for menopause is, how you can try CBT if you are experiencing menopause symptoms, and the science that could help to prove it really works. Here is everything you need to know if you’re interested in exploring CBT for hot flashes, better sleep and enhanced mood.

What is CBT?

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a therapy that focuses on helping people to understand the links between thoughts (cognition), emotions, physical reactions and behaviors. It helps to develop practical ways to manage problems and provides new coping skills and useful strategies. A key message of CBT is that our perspective within situations (our thinking), for example at work, influences how we feel and how we will cope (our behavior) in that situation.

What about CBT for menopause symptoms – does it work?

Several studies, in the UK and the Netherlands, with over 600 women, have shown that the CBT significantly reduces the impact of hot flashes and night sweats, and has additional benefits to mood and quality of life.

Menopause: a time of change on many levels

For most women the menopause transition is a process with changes happening at the biological, psychological and social levels. Hot flashes and night sweats are physical symptoms that occur when estrogen levels are changing and adjusting to a lower level during the menopause transition, and can be difficult to live with.

They tend to be more frequent when estrogen reduces rapidly, for example, following surgical menopause or some treatments for breast cancer. They can be accompanied by sweating, and palpitations or sometimes shivering, and can cause embarrassment, anxiety, discomfort and sleep disruption.


However, the process isn’t simply biological – social and psychological changes also have a role to play.


social, biological and psychological changes all impact you in menopause

Exploring a more positive menopause experience with CBT

Taking some time for yourself, challenging negative attitudes and expectations about menopause and midlife, and knowing that there are effective treatments for troublesome menopausal symptoms can be helpful.

While some women seek medical treatment for problematic symptoms, such as hormone therapy, many women prefer non-medical options. And since mid-life can be a stressful time, women also often look for ways to reduce stress and improve wellbeing. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) is an approach that many women find very helpful – you might have seen women exploring the practice during the BBC program ‘The Truth About… The Menopause’ with Mariella Frostrup – there’s a link to the program at the end of this article.

How does CBT for menopause work?

An example will help to explain how CBT can help manage hot flashes.

Imagine a woman who has a hot flash at work. She might think things like ‘I look stupid’, ‘everyone’s staring at me’, ‘they will think I’m past it’. As a result, she is likely to feel embarrassed and anxious; this emotional reaction can increase physical arousal which then in turn makes the hot flash more intense. She might also want to avoid this situation in the future and this behavior would be unlikely to be helpful in the long run.


behaviour, physical symptoms, thoughts and feelings are closely interlinked in menopause


Cognitive and behavioral strategies can be used to develop a calmer or more accepting view of a situation, and therefore allowing you to respond (behave) in a helpful way.

Women would be asked to write down their thoughts, feelings and behavioral reactions on the diagram above. Once they have identified a typical thought, they would consider whether it is overly negative.

CBT for hot flashes example: ‘Everyone’s looking at me…’

For example, in the situation described above the woman might consider the likelihood that everyone is staring at her and thinking that she looks stupid, or is ‘past it’. An alternative calmer and more neutral alternative could be to think ‘here comes another one – let’s see how I can deal with this one’.

During CBT sessions therapists and clients work together, and clients take an active role in their therapy and work towards their own goals that fit with their values and lifestyles. This is done within structured sessions, which include topics that are jointly agreed upon. Clients are encouraged to complete homework tasks, i.e. they try out practical strategies and discuss how they work with their therapists when they next meet.

What positive changes can women expect from CBT?

CBT has been established as an effective approach for people with anxiety and depression but also more recently it is applied to physical symptoms as well, such as chronic pain, and more recently for menopausal symptoms.

With colleagues at King’s College London over the past 25 years I have developed CBT specifically to help women with troublesome hot flashes and night sweats, during the menopause and following breast cancer treatments. The CBT for menopausal symptoms is typically brief (4-6 sessions), interactive and educational, with a focus on helping people to reduce stress, to manage hot flashes, night sweats, and improve sleep.

What is the evidence that CBT for hot flashes works?

As mentioned in the introduction, we have trialed the treatment for women going through a natural menopause, with women who have menopausal symptoms following breast cancer treatments, and also with men who also have hot flashes and night sweats following androgen reducing treatments for prostate cancer.

We found that CBT is effective when delivered in groups with 6-12 women lead by a trained health professional and also in Self-Help formats. Self-Help CBT (Hunter and Smith 2014) is available so that women can follow the therapy themselves over a four-week time period.

CBT for hot flashes at work

In a recent study we tested the Self-Help CBT in a booklet for women who were troubled by hot flashes at work and found that using the booklet without professional support had beneficial effects. The women had less troublesome hot flashes, and their sleep and mood improved following the CBT compared to women who did not receive the CBT booklet.

What did participants report?

At the end of these trials we interviewed women and asked them whether they had benefitted and if so what had helped. Women generally described their hot flashes as much less of a problem; for some they no longer had them while for others they said that they didn’t notice them much. Women reported improved coping with stress, hot flashes, night sweats and sleep, and generally described having a restored sense of control. Women experienced beneficial changes, which extended beyond their hot flash symptoms.

Self-help CBT techniques to try

As every woman’s menopause experience is as unique as she is, there is no ‘one size fits all’ approach, more a series of exercises, strategies and techniques to tailor to your personal circumstances. The book Managing Hot Flushes and Night Sweats: A cognitive behavioral self-help guide to the menopause is a good option if you are interested in trying these techniques yourself, though here are some examples of techniques you might explore.

CBT for hot flashes example: rethinking your thinking

Women are encouraged to challenge overly negative attitudes and beliefs about menopause and hot flashes; many women still feel that menopause and hot flashes are shameful or socially taboo.

During CBT sessions women are helped to identify the key thoughts that they often have while having a hot flash in a particular situation. They then consider whether that thought is helpful or not and how it makes them feel. The next step is to think about a way to think that is compassionate and more neutral in the situation.

how to reframe intrusive thoughts in menopause

CBT for menopause example: calm breathing

Another practical strategy that is taught in CBT for menopausal symptoms is calm breathing. This is slow breathing from the stomach. Women are asked to follow the breaths with their attention.

In this way, and with practice, physiological arousal reduces and thoughts are focused on breathing rather than on self-critical or other unhelpful thoughts.

Women can learn to use the breathing exercise in stressful situations and at the onset of a hot flash or night sweat.

CBT for menopause example: the wellbeing ‘MOT’

Cognitive and behavioral strategies can help people to make changes to improve wellbeing. A first step can be to look at life from a broad perspective – the things that you value (about yourself and life in general), what you used to enjoy doing, and/or how you would like things to be in 5 years’ time. Then you could gradually re-engage in activities that you previously valued and enjoyed but which you might have dropped over time.

As women progress through the menopause transition they often say that they have started gradually to rebalance their lives, for example, by starting to make more time for themselves, with encouragement from one another. Being more active, taking more exercise, being more assertive in general, and doing something creative were goals that women often aimed for in CBT sessions.

The last word – should you try CBT for menopause?

CBT may not be for everyone, and CBT does require time and commitment, but the benefits can certainly be worth it, because CBT teaches life skills that once mastered can be applied in situations long after the end of the sessions have finished.


About Myra Hunter

Myra S Hunter, Emeritus Professor of Clinical Health Psychology at King’s College London, is an expert in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and how it can be used to help women during the menopause. She was Expert Psychology Advisor to the Core Development Group for NICE Guidance on Menopause 2013-2015 and has published extensively on women’s health and menopause, including eight books, for example, Managing hot flashes and night sweats: a cognitive behavioural approach to menopause, Hunter and Smith, Routledge 2014 – a self-help CBT course that has been found to be effective in clinical trials.

Myra Hunter


Where to take the next step

  • Watch The Truth About… The Menopause – information about CBT in practice starts at 21:12.
  • Additional fact sheets on CBT for women and for health professionals are available on the Women’s Health Concern website here.
  • CBT is now widely available for anxiety and depression within primary care in the NHS if you are troubled by stress, sleep problems, anxiety or low mood – please talk to your Doctor to find out more.
  • To search for a  CBT therapist search here
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